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| Archive of 'Living Loved' Missives The Trouble with New Year's Resolutions: We are 15 days into 2009, and if you’re like me, that’s just about enough time to have made some resolutions, failed to keep them, and perhaps even given up altogether. This seems to be the pattern with me as each New Year begins, which is why I have a distinct distaste for the whole process. No matter how good my intentions are to start with, life always seems to sabotage my follow-through. It reminds me of that line from a Robert Burns poem about a farmer, whose plow accidently tore a mouse’s nest apart, causing him to wax eloquent about how easily things can disrupt our plans and why we should thus learn to live in the present moment. The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry, Burns wrote. How true.
To read more, click here. Tattoos and Living Loved: I have a secret desire to get a tattoo – well I guess it’s not so secret anymore – but anyway, I’ve even gone so far as to plan the whole thing out. I’ve decided what I want inscribed, where it would go on my body and which shop I would go to in order to get it done. I’m not sure why I want to do this, especially since I was horrified at the thought of my own kids getting one when they were teenagers. Now my adult son is a bit horrified that I’m even considering the idea. When I mentioned it recently, he threw the argument I’d always thrown at him, right back at me, which is that I’d be making a lifetime commitment about something I might change my mind on someday. Good point. But I’m still thinking about it.The whole idea came up this morning when I was reading Isaiah 49:15-16. To read more, click here. The Paradox of Living Loved: How would you describe your quest to live in God’s love? As I look back over my spiritual pilgrimage, I think I can say that I am more aware of God’s love than ever, and that even when I’m not tangibly experiencing it, there is an underlying confidence in His tender care, which permeates most of my days. One thing, however, still has the power to sabotage my sense of being loved, and that is when I’m confronted with my self – my weaknesses and failures, frail efforts or lack of commitment, my pride or my cold heart – among other things. Hardly a day goes by that I don’t at some point find myself thinking about the litany of ways I haven’t measured up. When these things cloud my vision, it’s difficult to return to the simplicity of resting in the embrace of a loving Lord.
To read more, click here. Pressing into God-Centeredness: 1. When spending time with the Lord or as you go throughout your day, when accusations or guilt or self-condemnation rises up, make a conscious effort to focus on facets of God’s glory that these things might remind you of.
Example: Often in the mornings as I seek to connect with the Lord, I am flooded with self-recrimination for all sorts of things – spiritual and mundane. I can feel guilt over what I ate or how I spent my time, or think of how many times I didn’t pray when I could have or didn’t reach out to someone when I should have – the list goes on and on. What I have learned to do instead is to acknowledge my weakness or sin, but then immediately affirm what is true about God in light of it. I might read Scripture or sing an old hymn or simply wait in His presence as I contemplate His glory until revelation comes and I know that sense of well-being in His presence.
2. Approach Scripture with the question: Lord, what does this tell me about You? Once you see something, ask for greater revelation about it. Study other Scriptures, meditate on it and interact with Him over what you are seeing.
To read more, click here. Father, I Desire:In 1916, with World War I looming large on the horizon, the editors of Leslie’s Illustrated Weekly felt compelled to encourage Americans to join in expanding the nation’s military force. They hired James Montgomery Flagg, a famous illustrator, to come up with a clever cover that would grab people’s attention. With little time to spare, Flagg ended up using himself as a model, and with a few changes, created the figure that would become known in generations to come as Uncle Sam. A few months later the military began an active recruiting campaign, using Flagg’s illustration for a poster with this caption underneath: I WANT YOU. The ad was hugely successful, although in truth, it might have read: I NEED YOU, given the number of recruits that were necessary for the war they'd soon engage in. Rooted in Love: Lately that nice little plot in our backyard where we tried to grow a vegetable garden last year has been calling my name, and I am trying to ignore it, largely because we failed so miserably last time. Besides the shadowy nighttime varmints and creepy crawling things that came out in broad daylight to devour everything from stems to leaves to barely budding fruit, we had to contend with mysterious diseases that left us wondering what in the world we had gotten ourselves into. Those, however, were the least of our worries. What really sabotaged our efforts and gives me pause when I think of trying again, is the layer of sandy clay in our soil that kept the roots of our plants from going deep enough and stunted their growth.
This came to me when I was studying our Living Loved passage this week and pondered the words in Paul’s prayer about being rooted in God’s love. To read more, click here. The Dastardly Deed is Done: I’ve done it -- the long awaited tattoo is permanently inscribed upon my inner arm. And in case you were wondering if this 57 year old Baptist pastor’s wife has lost her marbles, I assure you that this was no mid-life lark. When the idea first came to me a couple of years ago out of the blue, that’s all it was – a wild idea that Joe and I had some fun tossing around. At the time, I didn’t dream that God had anything to do with it. Then, last summer I shared my idea with some college students to provoke a discussion about how we make decisions as those in whom God’s Spirit dwells. What I really wanted them to grab a hold of was how intimately the Spirit wants to lead us as we learn to walk in God’s Word and seek His heart in all we do. Through that process it began to dawn on me that indeed the Lord had been the One gently nudging me from the start, so I started praying in earnest about the what and why and when of making the big jump. To read more, click here |
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